It’s the Holidays

I’ve been on a bit of a holiday break. Trying not to use the computer TOO much, home with family, catching up on sleep… and my OKC messages, apparently. It’s amazing how many guys come out of the woodwork around the holiday season. I’ve got a couple theories on why this is: a. Boredom. They’re […]

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Of Exes and Twitter Revelations

So, through the magic of Twitter and Facebook I have discovered that a guy I used to date is now married. [This is not the first time this has happened]. This is a guy for whom I fell hard, head over heels like a pinwheel. I’ve never felt the way I did about him about […]

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One of the things I don’t like about online dating is that it can sometimes be really difficult to know how to respond to people. For example, I frequently get messages like this one: Um. Hey. What do you do with this kind of an overture???? It’s actually worse than getting catcalled on the street, […]

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